Traumatic bondingWikipedia Open wikipedia design.
Patrick Carnes developed the term to describe "the misuse of fear, excitement, sexual feelings, and sexual physiology to entangle another person." A simpler and more encompassing definition is that traumatic bonding is: "a strong emotional attachment between an abused person and his or her abuser, formed as a result of the cycle of violence."
Bonding is a normal and natural occurrence between people in an interpersonal relationship that grows over time, strengthened by doing things together, participating in major life events together and experiencing good and bad times together.
In abusive relationships
Unhealthy, or traumatic, bonding occurs between people in an abusive relationship. The bond is stronger for people who have grown up in abusive households because it seems to be a normal part of relationships.
Initially, the abuser is inconsistent in approach, developing it into an intensity perhaps not matched in other relationships of the victim. It is claimed the longer a relationship continues, the more difficult it is for people to leave the abusers with whom they have bonded.
- Abusive power and control
- Attachment therapy, also known as "holding", is a controversial autism treatment that uses traumatic bonding in an attempt to establish long-term behavioral compliance in children on the autism spectrum
- Betrayal trauma
- Complex posttraumatic stress disorder
- Child grooming
- Climate of fear
- Idealization and devaluation
- Stockholm syndrome
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